Friday, December 21, 2012
Christmas?
It will be Christmas in 4 days. This year is going to be a lot different than I have ever experienced it. It's not only a a first for me, but a first for a lot of people. It will be Myles and my first Christmas together <3, My sweet nephew Ben's first Christmas ever, Mom's first time not being with all of her kids at least for a little bit on Christmas day, My first Ski season without hitting the slopes with my friends, My first Christmas apart from my family, the first time M&M will have to really watch a Christmas budget closely, and the first time that I get to work like my mom did to bring the Christmas spirit into my own home.
It always struck me that my mom did everything within her means to give presents to a lot of people. Not only that, but presents that actually meant something. Weather or not that present may or may not have been a note, or something cheesy, or even something extravagant never mattered. It was always something that she worked hard on. This year she didn't get time to wrap the presents that she sent to our house. I had to open the boxes to see if the fragile things inside had made it in one piece. The boxes were a little ragged looking so I had to look... I didn't want to because the underside of our tree is sort of bare and I want to have something for us to open on Christmas. I grudgingly looked inside the first box and inspected the glass thing, tears welled up. I had to take a deep breath and hold them back as I searched the rest of the box. I pulled it together, and looked in the next box. All was in tact. Now, I am an extremely emotional person already, but I started to cry because my super amazing, and exceptionally thoughtful mommy sent me a clear Glass picture frame thing with the words, "REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE" in big bold black letters engraved on it. Now, to most, these are just the words from the Lion King that Simba's dad says to him. But to me, these are the words my mom said to me every time I got out of the car, walked out the door, left her presence in any way, or just needed a reminder. She always told me on the way out the door for school, "Bye, love you. Be good. Remember who you are!" To most kids that would annoy, but to me it was always the reminder that I was 1. A daughter of a heavenly king. 2. To be a Shining example to all around me. 3. That I was McKay Boyack (Maxey) and that I am a strong, confident young women that could get through anything.
So when you get a present that is thoughtful, take the time to appreciate it! The people that gave it to you, think you are amazing and want you to be happy.
Now, spreading the Christmas spirit in our house has been a little bit hard. Myles and I are constantly on the go, and work takes up a big part of our lives, even during the Christmas "break". So this year has been different when it came to spreading Christmas spirit. We don't have the money or the time to do it like my mom does! The Christmas goody making was on short supply this year! Usually mom, Hannah, or myself makes a ton of goodies and we put them on plates and either ding-dong-ditch them, or go caroling. We did ditch one loaf of banana bread that I made at a friends house, but our caroling numbers are on short supply with just the two of us. So we made a total of 4 loaves of bread, and ditched one. We have done no caroling, and basically the only Christmas music we hear is what is played on the radio. My father would be pleased to know that the Carpenters are not forgotten when it comes to "Sunny 99.9". We finally have some wrapped presents under our tree, but sadly most of them will be moving on to Ann's house to be opened with Myles' family because only 2 of them are for either of us. So, to me, it feels that Christmas spirit is lacking within my home, but that's probably just because I'm an adult with a full-time job, and no children to make it seem like the most magical part of the year.
I had a hard time getting presents for Myles because he didn't mention anything he wanted, and he pretty much has everything he needs. I am not very creative, but I finally came up with one present that he didn't tell me he needed after I forced it out of him. I'm really hoping that he likes it, because I thought it was pretty ingenious! Myles, however, is the surprise present extraordinaire and claimed to have lots of ideas for me! I'm excited to see what he came up with!
Ben is having his first Christmas, but I hear he isn't very interested in the tree or the presents. Maybe he will be once he realizes he gets to rip everything apart. I'm sad I don't get to see it, but I'm sure I will get a full report, so I will live through it.
Budgeting is an old hat for us, so managing Christmas has not been too bad. :)
Although these are all things about Christmas, I have been thinking about the true meaning, and why we are all even here on the earth. Jesus Christ is the reason! He is not only the reason for this season, but the reason that we all live in joy and happiness. There are scary things in the world, but guess what? Christ over came it all. He is Almighty, he is the Prince of Peace, he is the reason I find blessings in each day, and he is the Good News! Jesus Christ is born! He died and has risen again, so that we can be free! Let us not forget to live joyfully, but also to live prayerfully, kindly, gently, righteously, and with a true testimony of the love that our Father in heaven and his son, Jesus Christ love and bless us. Extend a helping hand to those in need, smile at the people you come in contact with, be cheerful, find the tender mercies, be the one who reaches out to the one, and live the Gospel to the fullest!
We are blessed to live in a warm home, and an extremely full refrigerator and cupboards, have good friends, a job, a fuel efficient car, families who love and care for us, and most of all, the knowledge that Jesus Christ is our Savior and King.
Merry Christmas to all! May God bless you and your families! May your testimonies, and the testimonies of the Youth of the world shine brightly. Praise to the Lord, The Almighty! He is my all!
Sunday, December 9, 2012
Mom, this is for you
My mom was chastising me for not writing a blog recently, so here I am, fingering away at the keyboard trying to think of something fun to tell you guys.
I think since my last blog I have had a few exciting things happen, so here goes! We'll see if I can get them all!
I think the biggest thing was that my mom actually got on a plane to come see me! It had only been a week, but she missed me that much! We also happened to be throwing the New Mexico reception on the same weekend so it worked out well. ;)
We took them out to eat, which turned out that they took us out even though we had been planning on paying. Silly parents... haha anyway, we got to go back to my parents hotel. They had chairs so we decided it would be better that way. We are still working on getting a table and chairs... We had a great time talking, and giggling with each other, all while the dog across the hallway was going crazy!
The reception here went well! It didn't seem like there were as many people, but it was still a blast! We danced and greeted people, my Dad had the slide show going again, we even had little kids running across the gym and sliding on their bellies. It was a lot of fun! I did tell Myles that he was not to shove cake in my face this time. I might have cried. haha. I was too tired to think it was funny. It had been a long week of moving in and jumping back into work and I just couldn't trust myself to react well. All was well, we were kind to each other when it came time to cut the cake. The night ended well and there were a lot of people there to help us take down. It truly was a blessed occasion.
Sunday we were up bright and early to get my parents to the airport. It was not an easy thing to leave them there again. We likely will not see them until June for sandcastles. But I do know that the Lord provides for the things that will bless his children. Maybe if I'm lucky an miracle will happen and we will be financially great! Anyway, we made our way back to Cruces to make it in time for Myles' mom's ward sacrament meeting. We were in such a rush when we got home that I didn't even notice until halfway through church that I forgot to put my bra on! Talk about distraction from the spirit! I was laughing so hard, and I'm sure the people around me thought I was nuts! Good thing I was only visiting. Haha! Today, on the way to church I had to make sure that I had one on before Myles got too far from the house.
We have mainly been working non-stop since we got back nearly 2 weeks ago. This last week was a little stressful. The policies and procedures are changing with some of the dealerships we work with so they wanted to "train" us in the new way. Problem is, we asked them what they wanted us to do different, and they said, "Oh, just look on the website and do what you think looks the best. Uh... We were already doing that, thanks... We did end up changing a few of the pictures to make them more "appealing to the eye". Hopefully it will solve the drama problem and we can go on with our lives.
Today we went to our new ward. They seemed friendly enough! There was a couple people in there that Myles knows. Some kids from his seminary class are in it, so that is fun! We got all of our information to the bishopric and I assume we will be getting callings within the next few weeks. The lesson for third hour was on forgiveness. Although it was very well taught, I had a thought during the lesson that i never got to share. One of the headers in the lesson was, "Forgiveness frees us from the burden of hatred." Or something along those lines... The thought came to me that not only does forgiveness free our spirits, but it frees our bodies as well. I don't think many people realize the adverse effect holding a grudge can have on our bodies. I learned this, not only from my mom, but it was a huge subject in massage school as well. The minute we have an adverse reaction to something or someone, our body makes a mark, so that we can hold on to it. As LMT's we are taught to be supportive and understanding when clients break down on the table. When you work out a "knot" in someones body, it's brings to the surface emotions which were present when the knot was placed there. If there was anger, fear, confusion, sadness, pain, etc it can all come up. When you forgive a person or a situation, your spirit is freed and you can live with the spirit more fully, but in addition to that, your body can live up to it's more full potential. AH! So exciting! Thanks for reading my thought, moving on now.
I think since my last blog I have had a few exciting things happen, so here goes! We'll see if I can get them all!
Me and my parents in front of our (Myles and mine) favorite Mexican restaurant! Seriously, if you're in Cruces area, eat at Chopes. Most delicious food I've had. |
Pic of us from the Cruces reception |
My NM BFF Beth and I. She was a HUGE help! Love you! |
Sunday we were up bright and early to get my parents to the airport. It was not an easy thing to leave them there again. We likely will not see them until June for sandcastles. But I do know that the Lord provides for the things that will bless his children. Maybe if I'm lucky an miracle will happen and we will be financially great! Anyway, we made our way back to Cruces to make it in time for Myles' mom's ward sacrament meeting. We were in such a rush when we got home that I didn't even notice until halfway through church that I forgot to put my bra on! Talk about distraction from the spirit! I was laughing so hard, and I'm sure the people around me thought I was nuts! Good thing I was only visiting. Haha! Today, on the way to church I had to make sure that I had one on before Myles got too far from the house.
Myles eating ice cream on our rockin' 70's couch |
A different angle |
My adorable nativity |
Look at that cute Ref! ;) |
Today we also in-listed the help of our good friend Trevor and got
our couch moved in, so now we have more than one place to sit. It is really
wonderful to feel like it's all getting together! Yesterday Myles and I put in
a team effort and cleaned the house to prepare. Because my couch finally got
moved in, that means my nativity went up too! A lady from my mom's ward gave us
an ethnic nativity! It really is beautiful, very different, but beautiful the
same! I don't think I've seen any similar to it.
Our oven is really small and there is no room on either side or our pizza stone. |
Myles has been reffing basketball and I think I'm slowly coming to understand the sport. It really is one that confuses me. I don't understand all the rules yet, or why the players or the ref's do what they do, but I'm getting there and I'm enjoying watching! I told Myles all I wanted for Christmas was a stadium seat! On the day's that he works two games, my back starts to kill! I am really glad I get to watch him, even if it does hurt my back sometimes.
Our stockings, made by Kimber! <3 |
Kimber sent us our Christmas/Wedding present! They are adorable and I couldn't ask for anything more! We plan on getting our tree up by Wednesday at the latest, and I am starting to feel like it's Christmas, even though it's still in the 70's. I hear tomorrow is supposed to be colder, but we'll see what actually happens.
We had some sniffles and aches recently but those have passed. Myles has been putting thieves and peppermint oil into our humidifier so we wake up as fresh and clear as can be! We are busy, and doing well. I wish you all a merry, happy holiday season.
Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Honeymooners for life
Wednesday
we got up as early as our tired bodies would allow and got on the road. This
time we would make it to the bank first! We needed to stash all that cash we
got from our amazing friends! In the process of finding a bank, we discovered
that my temple recommend was missing. I called my parents house to see if it was
there, or if anyone had seen it. My temple recommend was extremely vital, as
our entire honeymoon was planned around attending as many temples as we could.
My family had not seen it but started looking around the church, as well as in
their house. The best thing that they did for me was Dads favorite thing to do
when something is lost. He gathered up my siblings all together for prayer and
asked for a blessing that we would find it. Prayer truly works! I was on the
phone with my mom, brainstorming where it might be and she told me to look in a
bag that had been put under my chair. When got out of the car to look under my
chair Myles got out and looked under his chair too. When he emerged, we
discovered a bag of old taco bell, as well as my recommend! We aren’t entirely
sure how it got there, but I don’t think that part really matters. What matters
is that we found it! We thought that that was a miracle! Even more miraculous
is that when we got back into the car, we realized that Myles hadn’t shifted
the car all the way into park and that we could have very easily rolled forward
and hit the pole we parked in front of. We were in neutral on a slanted parking
space, and we didn’t roll! The Lord is so good! Protection in all things if we
are faithful!
Our drive
to Boise was somewhat quick and painless. We sang Christmas songs for the
majority of it. Myles thought I was being silly and ridiculous the whole time,
but hey! Gotta do something to pass the time. I slept for a little bit, but we
chatted for most of the 7 hour drive. We got to Boise just in time for Criminal
to start! I had been looking forward to it all day, but had a really hard time
staying awake.
I didn’t
sleep too well because I was freezing the whole night, but that isn’t unusual.
I knew all
along that we would be honeymooning on thanksgiving, and I also knew it would
be hard. Had I known how hard it would be, I might not have done it the same
way. I was very flustered in the morning and I didn’t want to make many
decisions for myself. Our only plans for the day were to see if we could find a
store open to buy a Christmas ornament at, (I’m starting my tree décor by
buying an ornament from each city we stayed in.) and then keep driving to Salt
Lake City where our next hotel was booked. We found a walmart to buy an
ornament at. We picked BSU rubber duckies. They are cute. We also saw a camo razor
that reminded us of our friend Trevor.
Later on that day we also saw an advertisement that said, “BUY A TRUCK,
GET A GUN!” that made us think of Trevor again.
We hit the
road, making the slow journey for SLC. I was texting my Mom who was at her
mom’s house for thanksgiving festivities. That was really hard! So hard, that I
silently balled my eyes out for a good amount of time (Myles argues that it was
only 5 minutes) before Myles even noticed or said anything. I didn’t want him
to worry about me, but I was losing it! When he asked me what was wrong, and if
I was okay, I couldn’t help but laugh. I knew it was silly for me to cry. “I’m
a grown, married woman!” I kept telling myself. “You don’t need to cry because
you’re away from you family for the first holiday ever.” But it was no use, and
the crying/laughing continued as I told him that it was hard to be away from my
family for a holiday. I know he mentioned that He was sorry it was so hard, and
then something about his mission, but I don’t remember what else was said
between us. The tears quickly finished their début and the day went on as it
should.
No temples
were open on thanksgiving, but we did stop at both the Boise Temple, and The
Brigham City Temple to take pictures. Both of them are beautiful, and I hope to
visit the inside someday!
We got to
Salt Lake around 5 in the evening, checked into our Themed hotel room, and went
back downstairs to find some where that could feed us for thanksgiving, since
the room service options did not meet our expectations. After working with the
desk girl for a long while, we finally found that there was a cracker barrel in
South Jordan that was open and willing to feed us. We went there and it was
nice. Not a typical thanksgiving, but a thanksgiving none-the-less.
Now that
we’ve talked about the food, I must tell you about the hotel! It’s a hotel
called the anniversary inn. There are a bunch of them I guess. They remodel old
buildings and turn them into fancy, themed, individual places. We stayed in one
called, “The palace Suite.” But there are rooms themed as Egypt, Or the Jungle,
or even a town car! The building we stayed in was an old Jail. Myles was
reading about the history of the building, and paraphrasing, he said, “Honey,
we could be staying in a room where there was a murderer!” That is SO
comforting… lol! It was a good time though! Kind of a fancy get away… J
Friday we were up early to get
ready visit the Salt Lake City Temple. We had hoped to have time to walk temple
square more, but didn’t get the chance. The temple was beautiful and peaceful,
as always. It was interesting because to get into the temple, you have to go in
a whole different building, then go underground to get to the temple! It’s
real! The underground tunnels are not legend! The time in the temple was
blessed, and educational. We even got to see a friend from Myles’ mission! They
had a fun little reunion and it reminded me how blessed I am to be in a world
wide church that is so “Small” We are family!
We swiftly walked to deseret book
to grab a few things, and walked back to the car. We grabbed some food and went
to the next temple. This one was the Jordan River Temple. I made a special
point to make it to that one because my Parents were Married there. On the
Friday after thanksgiving, in fact! It was really sweet to be able to go do a
sealing session with a family. The father of the family was being sealed to his
deceased parents. He had a lot of family file names to do as well so we got to
participate in that too. I really felt impressed by their dedication to be
there as a family. There were 3 children, 2 spouses, and 2 parents there. They
truly were a happy family! It was a great experience!
After the temple we got on the road
to go to my Grandma Boyack’s house for a little get together they were having.
I wasn’t quite clear on it, but they celebrated thanksgiving on Friday! So we
got to go play some games and enjoy some desert with them. It was fun to just
be able to sit and be for a while! We were staying in Provo that night, so we
didn’t need to leave until I started to feel sick.
My sinuses were really bugging me.
I had a head ache because of them, and I was becoming extremely restless. Myles
did a really nice job forcing me to pull out my Oils and fix myself. He is
starting to be a Young Living Believer!!
Saturday I woke up feeling a
better! Lavendar on a cotton ball and in the ear, Theives on my throat and in
some water to drink, a warm hat to keep my head warm! That’s all it takes to
cure a little sinus issue. J
We planned on doing some more
temples so we loaded up pretty quickly and went to eat at IHOP because I had
never eaten there before and we needed some breakfast. Breakfast there was really
good but our waiter was really strange… Anyway, we went to the Mount Timpanogus
temple. It was, like all other temples, wonderful and inspiring! The session
there took much longer than expected but was great none-the-less. We decided
not to attend a session at the Provo temple like we had intended because we
didn’t want to drive over soldier pass in the dark. We spent some time on the Y
campus buying my ornament and getting some Ice cream from the BYU creamery.
That was delicious. Like, seriously!!!
We needed some real food to go
along with our Ice Cream so we headed to the closest Quizno’s to get a
sandwhich before we “needed” an oil change. Myles really thought we needed one
right away but I wasn’t exactly sure why. Anyway, that was a little weird since
we haven’t been able to change the title yet. They thought we were Jennifer! We
are not Jennifer. We got it worked out and the oil change took around 20
minutes. Just long enough for us to finish our food and get back in the car!
This time we went a block away to see Myles’ mission comp, Chandler Fordham. He
works at the mall in Orem at Finish Line. He’s hoping for an awesome promotion
soon so he said we had to come to him. It was pretty sweet. I miss having free
time to work out bunches. It was good to meet Fordham and be able to see Myles
so excited about it! They kept telling each other how skinny they looked… How
come no one was telling me how skinny and great I looked? :P It was fun for the
small amount of time we got to spend there.
By 3 o’clock we found our selves on
the road again! Headed to Moab this time.
We went to the grocery store
because I really needed some real food, plus our motel didn’t serve breakfast
in the morning and we didn’t want to eat out on Sunday. We were very sluggish
and indecisive at the grocery store. Haha we finally decided on begals in the
morning and some pizza bite things. After some football it was an early night
of 8:30 for us!
Sunday we found a ward where we
could attend sacrament meeting. As soon as it was over we hit the road again,
going for Albuquerque. At this point I was completely ready to just skip
Albuquerque and keep driving until we got home, but that would mean a wasted
room and getting home after midnight, only to have to make our bed. We made it
to Albuquerque and once again I wasn’t feeling well and I was ready for bed. A
little football and a big salad later I was sleeping. I would just like to say
that everyone talks about how great and awesome getting married and going on a
honeymoon is, but no one tells you how tired you get!! It is great and awesome…
but it’s also incredibly exhausting!
Monday I woke Myles up early. I was
READY TO BE HOME!! I’m a homebody and I know it. I will freely admit it too! My
mommy taught me how. We got to Cruces at 12:30. That gave me all afternoon to
make my house livable… It really wasn’t enough time. I walked in and I honestly
wanted to walk back out and let someone else do it.
At this point in time, with the
help of Myles and my awesome friend Beth I have put the kitchen together and
our room is put together. Most of the boxes that need to be searched through
and stored for sentimental purposes are in the spare room that will serve as an
office and massage room for now. The coffin of a bathroom has everything that
can fit in it already in it. I just have a few things down stairs that need to
be organized so that I can move the second couch in. Beth and I were even handy
enough to get the TV going! WITH channels! Man, I’m so good.
Myles will be home from his game in
a few minutes and it looks completely different down stairs. I’m excited!
Thanks for hanging on through the
entire story! There will be more newly wed stories to come!
Brigham City, UT |
Brigham City, UT Wednesday Afternoon |
Salt Lake City, UT Friday morning. Did a session. :) |
Jordan River, UT Friday afternoon. Did a Sealing session with the Aldriges. My parents were married here! |
Mount Timp, UT Saturday morning. Did a very long session, with a few technical difficulties |
Provo, Ut |
Monticello, Ut |
The endless amounts of cardboard that kept appearing in my kitchen where my table should be! |
Sunday, November 25, 2012
Here comes the Bride!
Some of the pictures Sharlene took before the Sealing. I haven't gotten any pictures of my dress yet... Again, Check out Mom's if you want those!
The wedding preparations started at
7 o’clock, nearly 3 hours after my body would not let me sleep anymore. Dr Drew
came to my shoulders rescue, just in time for my make up to be done, so I did
have a small break for us to chat some, and for my shoulder to be placed into
its socket correctly. Our long time family friend Kalisha did my make-up and
all of the make up and hair for my portion of the bridesmaids. Myles’ sister,
Chelle did my hair and she did a great job! I really loved how it turned out! I
was finished pretty quickly and Shar, Mom, Myles, Lillian, Leah, and Myself
headed up to the temple to catch a bit of the sun before the rain poured. We
took some really cute pictures in our dinner clothes. Myles and I were goofing
off big time, but it was just oh, so much fun and exciting! We entered the
temple and all the people were so helpful. We met with our records sister again
and then the work began to get my dress on. All of the temple workers told me
how beautiful and modest my dress was, and to compliment my hair. They were all
so sweet and wonderful! My dear mommy was there to help me and everything was
great! I got my dress on and when I walked around the temple, peoples’ heads
would turn and follow me and they would gasp at first sight. I felt like a
queen! It was incredible! They lead me to Myles. His eyes anxious and bright,
he sat there fidgeting until he saw me. Smiles filled our faces! My mom left me
with Myles and the Temple worker, who took us to the celestial room. There we
waited for our sealer to come speak with us. We chatted, we sat, we giggled, we
talked a bit more, it seemed like forever and I was getting anxious.
Butterflies were starting to churn within my stomach. I was becoming nervous
that we had been sitting there for so long, and it was becoming too much for
me. Finally the sealer came! He lead to some beautiful double doors, and much
to my surprise I heard the sound of something tearing. I turned around to see
the sealers face filled with horror, and the train of my dress, dragging long
and beautiful. Though it was beautiful, it was not supposed to be out yet! They
called my mom in and I busted into laughter! Holy cow!! I thought it was the
funniest thing that could have happened! The comic relief of the stress I was
in just minutes before was priceless! I really thought of it as a huge blessing
for me! My mom shoved the dress as far up my torso as she could, so that the
train would not drag, and the sealer came to speak with us when she finished.
He gave some instructions on how the ceremony would proceed.
He was very clear with it all, and
we entered the simple and beautiful sealing room with feelings of peaceful joy!
I walked in to see the smiling faces of people that loved and supported us!
Sister Tharp, My parents, Both sets of grandparents, Myles’ mom and grandpa,
the tearful smile of my wonderful sister Kimber, Ray, Anna and John, The Tapasa’s,
My dear friend Dean and his parents, Vicky and Mike Hilton, Sister Theil, Mary
Jane and Jim, and the Jessop parents. It was a room full of love! It was great
to see everyone there! There were a couple of men that I wish could have been
there, but my thoughts didn’t turn to them until after Myles and I had been
sealed, and My uncle Jim hugged me twice and said, “This one is from Rorie. You
know he would be here if he could.” Then with a tearful smile my thoughts
turned to the boys in my life who I watched become men as they prepared for
their missions. Elder Jessop serving in Texas, Elder Earl in Brazil, and Elder
Hewitt in California. All of them dear, dear friends of mine who I know would
have been there if they had not been called to serve the Lord right now. They
are phenomenal men and strong missionaries and I wouldn’t want them any other
place.
Going back to the sealing now… Dad
and Grandpa Nielsen sat at the head of the room with the sealer standing
between them. Myles and I sat between our mothers at the other end of the room,
fingers interlaced, and trying our hardest to focus on what the sealer was
saying to us. He gave us direction on how to have a fulfilling marriage. Key
points on what would bring us happiness. There were 5 of them and if I remember
them all correctly he instructed us to 1) Keep the commandments that God has
set out for us. 2) Learn and Live the Gospel. Be able to teach it. 3) Utilize
the Atonement. 4) Attend the temple often 5) Be prayerful.
He was very wise and it touched me
to know that he had prayed for council to give just to us.
Then the sealer had us kneel across
the altar from each another, smiling and locking eye contact. The sealer had
made special mention to us not to look at him, but at each other and so we did.
What seemed to be no time later, I heard him utter the words, “You are sealed
as husband and wife, legally and lawfully wedded.” Then, turning to Myles he
said, “ Do you want to kiss your girl?” quiet laughter filled the room. We
exchanged rings and each of our guest filled by, embracing and congratulating
us.
We hurried to get ready for
pictures, and fix my dress. We were told that there was sun outside right NOW
and if we were fast enough we would catch it. My mom followed me into my
dressing room and did her best to get my skirt off the ground with more safety
pins than I could count as they went on. They would do the job for now… we
found Myles and hurried outside. Just as we walked out the doors, it started to
sprinkle on us and then all to quickly it turned to a full on down pour. My
parade was not just being rained on! It was like someone turned on a faucet
right over the temple! The skirts of my dress were drenched; those who did not
make it under an umbrella were soaked to the skin. People became quickly
miserable. I tried to keep my spirits up as my mom demanded that I be the one
to make the decision for what to do. My options were stand in the cold and see
if we could get enough time without the rain that we could take pictures, or
send all the family away so that they could be dry while Myles and I took
pictures at the temple under an umbrella. I opted to send everyone else away
and do family and party pictures at the church after the boys shirts went
through the dryer. Chad hugged me as he was leaving and soon after that someone
asked me what was on my dress… To my shock and horror I looked down to see kind
of a brownish purple color smudged on the bodes of my dress. My aunt Anna said
she had a plan but for now while Shar was taking pictures it would just have to
be edited out of the pictures.
I was freezing the entire time but
I believe we got some good pictures out of the few minutes that we had. We of
course had far too much fun! Well, I don’t know if there is a such thing as too
much fun, but we enjoy ourselves a lot! Although I was having fun, I was still
cold so when we finished I was grateful to be able to get warmer, dryer clothes
on. We loaded the ripped, stained, and soaking dress into the car and headed
back to the family dinner.
Myles and I arrived at home with
enough time to have Gma Mabee and Anna work on my dress and for us to start
shoving things into the car. It was the assignment of Raymond and Anna to “play
tetris” with our car so that all the presents would fit into our little civic.
They did an amazing job if I do say so myself! We could probably even fit more
in if we needed to! Thank goodness we didn’t though… Anyway, Myles ran up to
the church to meet his family and eat while I finished helping Ray pack our
stuff up. I got to the church with enough time to have Chelle redo my hair
because it really needed it. The rain and wind had pretty much trashed it. Then
I drank a bowl of squash soup that was delish, and went to get my dress back on
for pictures. The stains were all out and the train was just taken out so that
it would look better than half of it being down. They did an amazing job and
really helped me feel calm about the whole situation. My one concern was that I
really had not eaten anything all day, and I didn’t know if I would make it
through the reception!
We did as many pictures as we could
before guests started arriving. I do have some fears that we didn’t get all of
them that I wanted. I’m mostly worried that we didn’t get one with my entire
immediate family. I know my momma really wanted one… Oh well… We will be back.
The party was great! There were so
many people there to support us! I felt bad for Myles because he didn’t know
anyone there except his family and one of his EFY Tacoma kids that came to see
him. Someone else would have to guess how many people were there because I
really haven’t a clue. There were a lot. I didn’t have a voice by the end of
it! We talked to so many people! Amanda Maki was amazing and did the Food and
cupcakes for the guests, and Elizabeth Marquez did the cake for us. They both
did an amazing job and it would not have been the same without them! I was
touched to see so many of my friends show up and see that there was help needed
and gladly step in to fill the empty spaces. Even Lagi got an apron on and got
to clear tables with her mommy! They were all so sweet and kind to help like
they did.
When it came time to cut the cake
we weren’t sure what the other was going to do. Smash cake, or be nice… I
wanted to be nice! My dress had already been through so much and I was so tired
by that point that cake in my face really didn’t seem like a ton of fun.
Anyway, Myles saw me pick up a piece of cake and thought it did it too quickly
to have the intention of being nice. Therefore, I got covered in cake! It was
everywhere! I tried to get him back but my arms just weren’t long enough! I did
get him to some degree, but not as much as he got me… haha it was all fun
though. All out of love, and very much full of laughter. The pictures people
got of this were great!
We had a first dance which was kind
of weird because we were the only people dancing and everyone was staring at
us… Maybe that is how it’s supposed be but we just talked and laughed with each
other while Myles continuously tried not to step on my dress. Following our
first dance we had a father/daughter dance which Myles and his mom joined us
in. That was fun! Again, dad and I talked and laughed. Following that I think
there was more visiting.
It was
coming close to time for Myles and I to leave but we couldn’t find my coat,
which had our keys in it. We got nervous that the usual vandalisms had been
done to our car, but thankfully went outside to see our car untouched. We
couldn’t afford to have anything done to it with the long drive that we had ahead
of us. Finally I believe it was Auntie Jo that found my coat in the kitchen,
with my keys still safely tucked into the pocket!
Myles and I
ran to my mom’s house to change out of our wedding attire, threw some more
things into the car, and ran back to the church to open presents and play
tetris. Mom wrote stuff down while Myles and I busted open the presents as fast
as we could. It was fun!
I went to
load up my dress to go with Ann but when I came out they were gone! I guess
they didn’t hear me ask if I could send my dress with them… We called them back
and I put the dress in the car. It is safely there and will be ready for me to
wear at our NM reception next week.
After all
the presents had been loaded up I started sending around the hugs to my family
and closest friends. Kimber and Fia were the only people who got me to cry all
day! Then I got to mom and that was just down hill from there. She and I just
held on tight, giggling and crying. Giggling because we are going to see each
other next week. Crying because it will be hard to be apart again. After I took
a few last minute pictures, Myles and I ran out the door to our car and hit the
road. Only heading for as far as Salem.
Pre-Wedding Bliss
Benjermin is getting to be quite the walker! |
I had to break this up to make it easier to read. Here is a start. Pictures were being strange so most of them are at the beginning.
Goofy Sister Time!! |
Case got a hair cut! Thanks to me! |
I got my hair colored! |
With the knowledge that I haven’t
posted in far too long, I’m going to try to get it all in. The 2 weeks that I
spent at home with my family was fun and busy! I got to help with a race that
Chad and my Dad ran in, shop with Kimber and Hannah, play endless amounts of “tiki-boo”
and hide-and-go-seek with Lillian, Case, and Lagi, spend nights laughing with
my parents, and frantically pull the remaining details of the wedding together.
It was a blast! A busy blast, but great nonetheless.
Lillian's Salamander friend |
Getting our Marriage License |
In the midst of the usual chaos
Myles and I were searching for a car. In Cruces and Oregon. We just needed
something to get us home since Myles was flying. Though we did hope to find one
in Oregon, if we got one in Cruces Myles’ mom was going to drive one of them up
with her if needed. Miracles happen! I found one about an hour and a half away
from my parents house, arranged for us to meet them to see the car, got Ray to
come look at mechanical things with me, cleared it with my parents that I could
take their car, pulled the money out of the bank and headed out the door to
look at a 4-door Silver 2004 Honda Civic EX. It was exactly what we were
looking for! Raymond and I agreed that it was in excellent condition and I
called Myles while Ray called mom. We shared the same message about the car and
just asked for opinions and guidance. Myles asked me what seemed to be endless
amounts of questions and finally gave me the clearance to buy it, as long as
they would drop their price some. I asked them how low they would be willing to
go (one of the most intimidating things I have ever done!) They dropped the
price $500 for me and I ended up giving them $6500 in cash and driving away
with the title of my new used car! I really am pleased with the buy. Myles does
has his reservations, but after the experiences he has had with used cars, I
don’t blame him.
Wedding planning continued onward
and the 2 weeks away from Myles seemed to drag on and race by all at the same
time! Finally the day arrived that Myles flew in. I was late getting out the
door and his flight came in early. I knew it as going to be close anyway, but I
was really starting to worry about how disappointed he would be if I wasn’t
waiting at the gate to get him. I made it to the airport 3 minutes before his
plane unloaded. I felt so blessed to have made it! Myles kind of had to “hit
the ground running” because we had places to go. We needed to get some things
for my wedding hair, but more importantly we had to get our marriage license
from the county office! That was an intriguing experience for me. I thought it
was so weird that they didn’t ask for ID or a birth certificate or anything!
They listed online that we needed to have all that available and ready but the
only thing they wanted from us was our SSN’s. What happened to proving we are
who we say we are? Oh well, we got what we wanted! We got home with enough time
to play a few rounds of hide and seek, build a house out of lego’s and clean up
the down stairs room for Myles to sleep in it. After that Mom took us to the
high school to raid what Witt was going to let us borrow (aka anything we
wanted we could have). With selection help from Mom and Megan, we loaded all
sorts of stuff into the Suburban. It was great! After that I don’t honestly
remember what happened Friday night… (Myles reminded me that we got frozen
yogurt and watched a movie with Chad).
Saturday Myles got up in time to go
help dad move one of the ladies he home teaches across town. They didn’t get
out the door as soon as expected but once they actually left I think they were
only gone for an hour and a half or so. Upon their return to the home, all of
Myles stuff for the temple was ready so that he could quickly shower and get
ready. Then we ran out the door with my mom to do some shopping before I
attended the Temple for the first time that evening. We got some fabric for the wedding table décor, a skirt for
mom, new underwear for myself, and new white shirt for Myles. It was a grand
time!
Once we got to the temple Myles and
I met with a sister who helped with the documentation of my endowment and our
wedding. She made sure the spelling and dating of things were correct. They
were and we went on our way. My mom and Sister Theil from her ward guided me
through the Temple process, taking me step by step and showing me by example
how much the house of the Lord means to them. It was a marvelous experience and
I couldn’t have asked for it to go any better! The spirit was so strong and my testimony of the Temple has
only increased since then! The temples that are available to the people of this
earth are sacred, blessed places where we can become closer to our Heavenly
father and our Savior Jesus Christ! I am so blessed to be able to live close to
a temple and to be able to attend it often!
Sunday was just the usual Church
and dinner with a little twist of fighting a cold. My aunt Mary Jane and her
family got to our house Sunday evening to help us celebrate the wedding. And
Myles’ family got to their hotel in Salem around the same time. It was good to
know that everyone thus far had arrived safely. We tried to watch Galaxy Quest,
a Boyack family favorite, so that Myles could understand the humor of it, but
he and I crashed. He had been fighting a cold for a time and I was developing
it. Emotionally and physically we were already drained, and we hadn’t even got
to the wedding frenzy yet!
The water movers! |
Monday started earlier than any of
us wanted. Or at least that is how I felt. I was so tired and getting so sick!
I was the first one to the Church with my cousins, Connor and Ethan helping me
unload all the things from Witt. The weather was not helping me be optimistic
at all! The wind was blowing so hard, and if the water wasn’t falling from the
sky, the wind was picking it up off the ground and blowing it everywhere! It was
dreadful! People began to trickle in, ready to help. My mom and Megan started
giving people jobs as best they could, Myles’ family found the church just fine
and we tried to keep them busy. Megan kept telling me to leave because I was
getting to anxious about needing a job, but going home to pack didn’t sound
like much fun either. Dad, Connor, Ethan, Ray, Kimber and Megan brainstormed
about my drop ceiling. It ended up looking amazing, but not until a lot of
sweat was put into it. Thank you for your help and your ides! Experience has
now shown us that a bike wheel works over a hula-hoop. I did end up going to
pack, then coming back for lunch, then hanging around for a while until mom
called with the report that the pump could not hold back the waters, and the garage
had flooded. I got home to see the river flowing through our house, just as I
had seen it so many times before as a kid. I pulled on my rain boots and waded
through 3 inches of water to the push broom that had my name one it. Connor and
I pushed water out of the garage for a good 2 hours while Dad worked on the
pump, Jessops and Chad found sand bags and pulled the leaves from the drains of
the cul-de-sac behind us, and mom hopped back and forth from the Church to the
house. It was an adventure, and strangely enough even though I was trying to
bail my parents out of their swamp, I was much more calm having something to
do. Connor and I got to stop sweeping once the sand bags got put down because
the water was no longer flowing fast enough to need it. I went inside and
plopped myself on the couch, constantly thinking of how tired I was.I didn’t
feel well, and I could tell I had popped my shoulder out while I was pushing a
broom. I tried to call our good family friend and Chiropractor to see if he
could get me in asap so that I would be able to hug people on Tuesday, but I
had no luck at that point. Myles was not improving much and was running a
substantial fever. He worked up enough energy to go to Salem to have his
“Bachelor party” with his siblings and Trevor. They went laser tagging and
sounded like they had a pretty fun time. My job after that was to make sure
that the lasagna in the oven didn’t burn, but I was even too tired for that! I
don’t remember where I went, but thanks to Uncle Jim, it didn’t burn to badly.
We ate dinner and chatted for a while. I showed Grandma Boyack how to play
angry birds like a boss. But mostly we were all just tired. I went up to the
church to relieve Kimber of Benjermin so that she could keep working, and the
gym looked amazing! These ladies really worked hard on this, and it ended up
looking phenomenal! They did change a few things after I saw it last, but it
really looked great! We I believe only purchased 2 bolts of toole, and the rest
was either loaned or given! Thanks to Mr Witt and the Drama and Activities
departments at CHS we had some awesome things to work with! Monday night I
couldn’t sleep. I didn’t even get into bed until after my mom poked at my face
to make my sinuses stop burning, and my head stop hurting. Then she had to
practically force me into my bed. I asked for blessings for Myles and Myself,
that we would be able to sleep and to rest well enough to have our bodies heal.
I slept pretty restlessly but I found that I did get at least a little bit of
sleep. My siblings and cousins were told they had to be quiet or I would go
crazy bride on them! I don’t think that did a whole lot… haha
There is more to come!! :) If you want to see more pictures and hear my moms point of veiw, read her blog! There are more pictures too!
http://wendy-abcsoflosingme.blogspot.com/2012/11/week-at-boyacks-week-24-chapter-1.html
Friday, October 26, 2012
Fels-Naptha
Miracles happen once in a while!! So, yesterday I had a bit of an itch on my leg so I scratched it. Not with my finger nails, because if you knew me well you would know that I don't have much in that department. Although, I would like to say that it is getting better! Anyway, I was holding a pen and we were between work and going to an appointment to workout our house. I few minutes later I looked down, severely shocked that I was COVERED in pen! Myles was convinced my pants were ruined... They look like they would be, don't they?
Never fear! My mommy taught me how to beat those stains out! Fels-Naptha is an amazing product! I rinsed my shorts and started to rub the bar of soap all over on the pen but it appeared that nothing changed. I did this 2 more times and then put them in the wash by them on cold. After it was done, I did the same thing, rubbing the soap into the pen that was left and I washed them by themselves on Hot!
Yes, it is a lot of work, but you can save clothes like no other with this! I have seen my auntie Jo turn my completely gross looking panther sweatshirt into something that looked almost new! Pit stains and smells come out with this, Mom used to have us make our own laundry soap with it and we had a 5 Gl bucket of soap for what, $4? It is super cool and very much worth the work it took to get the pen out!
I get to keep my pants! :D Thanks for teaching me cool tricks, mom!
Never fear! My mommy taught me how to beat those stains out! Fels-Naptha is an amazing product! I rinsed my shorts and started to rub the bar of soap all over on the pen but it appeared that nothing changed. I did this 2 more times and then put them in the wash by them on cold. After it was done, I did the same thing, rubbing the soap into the pen that was left and I washed them by themselves on Hot!
Yes, it is a lot of work, but you can save clothes like no other with this! I have seen my auntie Jo turn my completely gross looking panther sweatshirt into something that looked almost new! Pit stains and smells come out with this, Mom used to have us make our own laundry soap with it and we had a 5 Gl bucket of soap for what, $4? It is super cool and very much worth the work it took to get the pen out!
I get to keep my pants! :D Thanks for teaching me cool tricks, mom!
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
It's my PARTY!! And I choose how it ends!
Just a quick update on us! We are staying very busy and I am just counting the days until I can see my family and the rain, and have a reason to wear my fall clothes, etc. Then after that, only EIGHTEEN DAYS UNTIL I AM MRS MAXEY!!!
Tomorrow is my Birthday. We aren't planning on doing a whole lot. Work, lunch with a friend, dinner with Myles. My Momma sent me an awesome book full of information about Essential Oils! I have so much fun reading to do! THANK YOU MOM!! When I saw the price of the book it just made me all the more grateful that my Mom loves me enough that I don't have to buy it for myself! Myles and I are working on Budgeting so that we can use this holistic style of healing much more in our home! I am already hooked on it thanks to Mom, but I am also slowly convincing Myles that they are amazing. He thinks they're nasty, but he knows they work so ;) Progress!!!
Some of the biggest news is that we (aka my amazing mom) have mailed out invites and I have had a couple of reports of people getting them already! I'm totally in love with them! They turned out great!
Our general daily lives consist of Scripture study together and on my own, work, occasional football games, class for Myles, internship for Myles, laundry more often then I care to admit, homework, and usual household things. I am really enjoying this chapter in my life and can't wait for the next month and 3 days to go by.
Due to inspirations from watching General conference, and personal study I have decided to work toward bettering myself by working on one Christ-like attribute each week. Right now I'm working on Selflessness. I am working on being slow to anger, being ready and willing to reach out and help someone else, to be peaceful and calm in frustrating situations, and really striving to feel the love that Christ has for each of us. It has only been two days since I really implemented into my life, but I am really feeling a difference in myself. I have been asking Myles consistently to keep me on track and I am so far loving the outcome! I am so overjoyed with the feelings of love that have come into my heart!
Jesus Christ is the most amazing being. He changes lives everyday! His Atonement is real and he allows me to become better. He loves me, as he does each and everyone of us. I am forever thankful for he gift he has given, that can only be repaid in my efforts to follow him. Jesus Christ is My Savior and Redeemer!!
Thanks for checking in! May the Lord touch your life today! And may we all be humble enough to see those blessings in all their glory!
THIS is some serious reading! |
Some of the biggest news is that we (aka my amazing mom) have mailed out invites and I have had a couple of reports of people getting them already! I'm totally in love with them! They turned out great!
If you need one, let us know! We have plenty! |
Some amazing Nature that we don't get in Oregon. Gorgeous, eh? |
Jesus Christ is the most amazing being. He changes lives everyday! His Atonement is real and he allows me to become better. He loves me, as he does each and everyone of us. I am forever thankful for he gift he has given, that can only be repaid in my efforts to follow him. Jesus Christ is My Savior and Redeemer!!
Thanks for checking in! May the Lord touch your life today! And may we all be humble enough to see those blessings in all their glory!
Thursday, October 4, 2012
I can't think of a title...
I've been trying to come up with something to write about... Our weeks are starting to turn into the same things over and over again. Well okay, they are mostly there already! We work a ton, Myles goes to his internship at the boys home, I do laundry and find random things to clean so that I stay busy, we have institute a couple of days a week. I'm totally loving our class. I work some more, I watch Myles ref football games when I have the energy to sit out in the sun all day.
My attitude about Las Cruces has improved leaps and bounds over the last two or so weeks! I was having a really hard time with the weather, my lack of friends, my move, etc. The effects and realization of change were in full force and I was a bit bitter about all of it. I think I mentioned in my last blog that I had a neat experience in institute, but it really hits me every day how it is my choice to find this desert beautiful. We do not get blue skies like these in Oregon. Gorgeous! I still LOVE the rain though.
Today Myles and I were working in Deming, about 45 minutes from Cruces. I was walking the lot, taking inventory and I saw the COOLEST thing! I mean, I really thought this was cool. I made Myles come all the way across the lot to see it. He didn't think it was nearly as awesome as I did, however, that did not change my opinion of it. THIS is what I saw. A leaf bug!! I don't think I've seen one before, but it is so amazing to me! Look!! God's creations are truly amazing.
As far as other adventures I've been having, I got lost today. I kind of new where I was, but I was in no way prepared to get to where I was trying to get! I was headed for Sam's Club to buy the cheapest gas in town, and then to the post office. Myles tried to explain to me how to get there before I dropped him off. It was n't far, and yet, I managed to find myself headed out of town on HWY 70. I finally turned myself around, got oriented, and made it to Sam's. I jumped out of the car and went to fill up, only to discover that Sam's only accepts Sam's cards as payment at their gas station. Myles had forgotten to give it to me... I didn't even know I needed one! I was so frustrated after being lost, that this was just something more to add. I headed for the post office, gas tank still empty. At the post office there was a huge line and I didn't want to wait. Plus I thought that if I bought a flat rate box there, they were going to make me pay for an entire roll of tape in order to assemble it. I panicked when I didn't know which direction (East or West) I needed to go on the freeway to get home. I knew which way, just not which exit to take. I took a chance and kept going until I saw an exit I knew... Kinda? I was mostly guessing, but I finally saw a sign that said El Paso and I knew that was the direction I needed. I went to one of the many high schools to wait for the kid we pick up on Wednesdays. He made me wait a long time... We made our usual Sonic happy hour run and then I made him go to another post office with me. We had a great bonding experience standing in line there. After dropping him off I went home and tried ever so hard not to crash! Holy cow I'm exhausted! Myles and I are getting up just a little earlier in the mornings so that we can read scriptures before he goes to seminary. Oh goodness, It has been super hard. Totally worth it though!
With my exhaustion, I think I'm sick. I haven't really decided. I'm nauseated a lot of the time. My head kills me. My stomach will cramp randomly. And today my throat started to hurt. I have almost chucked several times at work. That would be fun... New cars, used cars, throw up... Yeah... I have only taken a decongestant once, yesterday when I thought maybe I was getting a migraine because of sinus congestion, causing me to have vertigo and nausea. I honestly don't remember if it worked... lol I have been downing peppermint tea and Thieves oil like crazy. I'm hoping it will pass soon. Myles was pressured by his Doctor to get a flu shot. It flared up and he wasn't feeling well on Saturday. He actually threw up though... My thought is that mine is related to that, I can only hope at least.
Over all, things are great! The count down to my birthday is in full swing! I'm more excited this year than I have been in years past. And I don't even know why! Also, I'm coming home in less than a month!! WHOO FOR HUGGING MY MOMMY!
My attitude about Las Cruces has improved leaps and bounds over the last two or so weeks! I was having a really hard time with the weather, my lack of friends, my move, etc. The effects and realization of change were in full force and I was a bit bitter about all of it. I think I mentioned in my last blog that I had a neat experience in institute, but it really hits me every day how it is my choice to find this desert beautiful. We do not get blue skies like these in Oregon. Gorgeous! I still LOVE the rain though.
Today Myles and I were working in Deming, about 45 minutes from Cruces. I was walking the lot, taking inventory and I saw the COOLEST thing! I mean, I really thought this was cool. I made Myles come all the way across the lot to see it. He didn't think it was nearly as awesome as I did, however, that did not change my opinion of it. THIS is what I saw. A leaf bug!! I don't think I've seen one before, but it is so amazing to me! Look!! God's creations are truly amazing.
As far as other adventures I've been having, I got lost today. I kind of new where I was, but I was in no way prepared to get to where I was trying to get! I was headed for Sam's Club to buy the cheapest gas in town, and then to the post office. Myles tried to explain to me how to get there before I dropped him off. It was n't far, and yet, I managed to find myself headed out of town on HWY 70. I finally turned myself around, got oriented, and made it to Sam's. I jumped out of the car and went to fill up, only to discover that Sam's only accepts Sam's cards as payment at their gas station. Myles had forgotten to give it to me... I didn't even know I needed one! I was so frustrated after being lost, that this was just something more to add. I headed for the post office, gas tank still empty. At the post office there was a huge line and I didn't want to wait. Plus I thought that if I bought a flat rate box there, they were going to make me pay for an entire roll of tape in order to assemble it. I panicked when I didn't know which direction (East or West) I needed to go on the freeway to get home. I knew which way, just not which exit to take. I took a chance and kept going until I saw an exit I knew... Kinda? I was mostly guessing, but I finally saw a sign that said El Paso and I knew that was the direction I needed. I went to one of the many high schools to wait for the kid we pick up on Wednesdays. He made me wait a long time... We made our usual Sonic happy hour run and then I made him go to another post office with me. We had a great bonding experience standing in line there. After dropping him off I went home and tried ever so hard not to crash! Holy cow I'm exhausted! Myles and I are getting up just a little earlier in the mornings so that we can read scriptures before he goes to seminary. Oh goodness, It has been super hard. Totally worth it though!
With my exhaustion, I think I'm sick. I haven't really decided. I'm nauseated a lot of the time. My head kills me. My stomach will cramp randomly. And today my throat started to hurt. I have almost chucked several times at work. That would be fun... New cars, used cars, throw up... Yeah... I have only taken a decongestant once, yesterday when I thought maybe I was getting a migraine because of sinus congestion, causing me to have vertigo and nausea. I honestly don't remember if it worked... lol I have been downing peppermint tea and Thieves oil like crazy. I'm hoping it will pass soon. Myles was pressured by his Doctor to get a flu shot. It flared up and he wasn't feeling well on Saturday. He actually threw up though... My thought is that mine is related to that, I can only hope at least.
Over all, things are great! The count down to my birthday is in full swing! I'm more excited this year than I have been in years past. And I don't even know why! Also, I'm coming home in less than a month!! WHOO FOR HUGGING MY MOMMY!
Friday, September 21, 2012
Finding Tender Mercies
The entry, compared to my last one will be boring! Things here at the Maxey pad are mellowing down big time. Myles still has symptoms from his concussion, but they are few. (If you're confused, read my last blog). All in all health is returning to the home and maybe someday my life will slow down that Ann wont have to do my laundry for me. It's nice of her to do it for me while I learn my new job and get Myles to his doctors appointments.
My job is extremely stressful for me at times, but I am learning to like it, and that is definitely a plus! I had an attitude check on Thursday. That is what happens when you go to institute. I realized that the only thing that can make me love it here in Cruces is me. I have to pick the things that I am going to like about it here, not the things I don't like in order to see it's beauty. Yes, it is flipping hot here all the time, but if you take a minute to look at the sky it's an amazing blue! A blue you don't usually see in good ol' Oregon! Another plus, even Myles admitted that I'm getting tan!
See? Everyone has them! |
This may be just an observation but I really feel the need to comment on it. If you are from western Oregon, you don't use an umbrella. You just don't! If it's pouring outside you either don't go out, or tough up! Rain isn't going to melt you. Here, everyone has an umbrella! I mean, EVERYONE! Only here, it's not to keep the rain off, it's so that you don't die from the sun! I never thought I would have to purchase an umbrella... What has happened? This is crazy! Anyway, it just makes me laugh.
As far as wedding plans go, we're just waiting on a couple of things so that we can get the invites out. Got our information letters from the Temple this week! Kimber and Mom are working on decorations for Oregon, Ann is working on everything for here, I've still got a shoe dilemma when it comes to all the girls, I'm trying to stay my same size so that I can fit in my dress. ;) Good thing it's a lace up!
Myles is working at the boys home here in Cruces for his internship, doing his school work, rescuing me from my work when I get overwhelmed, reffing lots of football games, and continuing to improve.
As I have come to realize more and more each day, we are blessed! I know that the Lord sends us tender mercies everyday, and all we need to do is recognize how miraculous they are! So glad to have the support of my Family and that of Myles and his.
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